-- By Tom Phillips
What a pleasure it is to run into one’s self in an unlikely
place. A few days ago I was browsing in
the Northshire bookstore in Manchester , Vermont ,
filling time while my wife looked for a gift. In the psychology section of the second-hand book nook, a title jumped
out at me: “The Delights of Growing Old,”[1] with
a cover drawing of a rakish, unmistakably Parisian gentleman, nattily attired and
puffing a cigarette. His name was
Maurice Goudeket; I’d never heard of
him, but within a day he became something like an alter ego.
Like Goudeket, I am in my early 70s, a writer and journalist,
finally released from the need to seek gainful employment; comfortably retired,
healthy, and happily married. He was a
Parisian and I’m a New Yorker, but we live the same way: